Gack!
I am so pathetically devoid of geek skilz-sorry for all the futzing around tonight.
I finally decided to update Wordpress after 2 years of Breakingsod and even with my friend Jeff running the show, we still managed to break it a few times-Thanks Jeff, for hanging in there and getting the header back! 
Now if only there was something I could do about the butt-ugly textbox background colors.
DOH! Sam just pointed out that my ‘Love wields a shovel’ tagline disappeared too! 
Sigh. At least it’s working!